maybe im overthinking this but my partner and i had the same argument again last night, the one about whose turn it is to deal with the annoying stuff, bills, appointments, all of it... we always end up agreeing on a system for about a week and then it just quietly stops happening and neither of us brings it up again until were both annoyed. i dont think either of us is lazy exactly, i just dont know how two people are supposed to split invisible stuff fairly without one of them having to be the one who remembers to check
Anonymous Civet,